Are You Facing The Adversity?

Most people would be worry, anxious, or even paralyzed when facing an unprecedented adversity…no matter it is imaginary or real. Seldom would react calmly with courage and confidence to deal with the situation.

What are the adversities that you are facing? Having a huge credit card debt? Not getting enough traffic to your site? Not getting good conversion at your salespage? Dealing with bill collectors? Breaking  relationship with a business partner? Looking for more money to pay rent?

Many successful internet marketers once had tremendous adversities. John Reese had more than $100,000 in debt at age 24. Mike Filsaime had to file personal bankruptcy before becoming successful online.

When we are facing the adversity, we often response irrationally with negative emotions even we KNOW what we should do. Yet, we keep worrying.

There is a magic formula used by many successful people to handle their threatening adversity with boldness. I am going to share it.

Once we can relief ourselves from worrying about the adversity, we gain back energy and will power to deal with the situation with more creative solutions. And then we can freely move forward to implement those ideas instead of wasting time to worry miserably.

Brain Tracy the well known personal development coach and professional speaker is recently cured from a throat cancer. He shared these powerful steps on how to handle adversity. These steps are extracted by Brain from Dale Carnegie’s book “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living.”

Here are the 4 simple steps to overcome adversity:

Identify your problem
What is exactly your problem? Ask yourself what is your problem. This is very important step to do. Don’t skip it.

Start a blank page and write down the question “What is your problem?”.

Answer the question like a friend is asking. Try to describe the problem as clear as possible. Perhaps, your answer could be “I need more money to pay off debt”. The next question would be “How much do you need?”. And you may answer “I need $500 per month to pay off debt.”

Describe the worst outcome
Imagine if your problem is not resolved, what is the worst possible outcome? If you do not get that $500 per month to pay off debt, what would happen? Your loans could be default. And bill collectors will be calling you. Your house could be foreclosure. You could be homeless and etc.

Resolve to accept the worst
This is the most difficult part in the process. But once you can accept the worst, you feel more freedom in life. You are not doomed with worry and fears. Your mind would have more room for new solutions. Suddenly, new insights pop up. You would see light in the dark tunnel.

Improve the outcome
Since we can accept the worst outcome, we would be more delighted to see anything better. Start working on those solutions and ideas that could improve the situation. We are better off by slightly improve the situation.

Say if we can make extra $100 per month, we would have improved the financial situation. Even though not all debt can be handled, but we would have less headache to handle. Use your refrained energy and creativity to work on more ideas to improve the situation further. Look how far you can achieve.

In the book Psych-cybernetic, Dr. Maxwell Maltz describe human being as a goal serving machine. If we put our focus on worrying something, we get more worrying ideas. If we put our focus on improving the situation, we get more improving ideas.

If we can focus on making improvement, we can make amazing accomplishment.We often are surprised how much we can achieve when we reach the finish line and look back.

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